Growing up in rural Georgia, we were close with our uncles, aunts, and cousins. We were constantly together for family reunions with the entire clan of grandparents, brothers, and sisters, so we also got to know second and third cousins. These family reunions would have hundreds of family members gather at one relative's farm or another.
Our gatherings were nothing short of spectacular for us kids. The rough wood planks would be covered with tablecloths and filled with an enormous selection of southern cooking! One of the senior members of the family would call for us to gather 'round for the prayer. Blessings would be shared and when the final "Amen" was shouted, the feasting began.
After dinner, dishes were cleared, and all the desserts would appear. And yes, there was a good deal of competition and speculation on which female had made the best pie or cake. The best part was when the old-fashioned ice cream buckets came out with ice and salt. We kids were assigned to take turns with the ancient hand-cranked machines. But the effort was well worth every sore arm! Peach, strawberry, pecan, and sometimes just plain old vanilla flavors were among the selections. Milk right from the dairy barn, sugar, and fresh fruit made the most incredible fresh ice cream!
I remember those celebrations and feel thankful that I experienced them growing up. We are truly grateful for all of you, our wonderful clients, and the privilege of helping you with your financial journey.
By David Edge
David Edge is a retirement lifestyle writer and contributor to the ARA monthly newsletter. His articles blend personal stories with practical insights on living well in retirement.
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Easy Eddie's Take
David's story about those Georgia family gatherings reminds me how important it is to think about the legacy we're creating for our own families. A lot of people ask me, "How can I make sure I have enough money saved to enjoy time with my grandchildren and create those same kinds of memories?" The good news is that with some planning, you can build those experiences into your retirement years.
In 2026, if you're 50 or older, you can contribute up to $31,000 to your 401k (that includes the $7,500 catch-up contribution), and up to $8,000 to an IRA. Think of it this way: every dollar you save today is a future family gathering, a grandchild's birthday party, or a holiday celebration where you can be fully present without worrying about money. Most people are surprised when they learn that even small, consistent contributions can grow into substantial family legacy funds over time.
Just like David's family created those wonderful traditions around the dinner table, you can create your own tradition of financial preparedness that lets you gather 'round with the people you love most.